Interwined with Homeland

Although I write about the different places I have been and experiences I have gained, I will never be able to fully share this journey.  I feel so blessed to have been able to take part in such a unique and amazing cross-cultural.  My mind swirls with the things I have learned, the ideas and goals I want to implement, and the joyful memories.  God has worked wonders in my life and those around me.  I have seen genuine love and kindness, as well as hatred and disease.  We may have different cultures and beliefs, but we are all human beings with purpose.  I feel more confident in my direction of career, my relationship with God has grown stronger, and I have been inspired to make personal changes.  Even a month after I have returned, I continue to seek ways to apply the cross-cultural to my daily life.
Thank you for your prayers and interest.  I hope to continue to share more stories and experiences with all of you as I continue to adjust and adapt.  If you missed the chapel and would like to see it, I have a copy of it.  May God bless you and give you unique experiences wherever you are.

Wrapping Up in Cape Town

As I traveled, many people along the way kept saying what a wonderful place Cape Town is and how I would love it.  I was a bit skeptical of all the praise.  I finally asked one man what it was that was so great about Cape Town.  He said the city is placed in such a gorgeous area and the city is so alive and vibrant.  Well...he was correct.  The city is nestled in between the towering green mountains and the clear blue ocean.  As I came around the mountain into Cape Town for the first time, I was in awe at the sight.  Since then, my host family took my roommate, Sarah, and I all around the area.  Each place was just as gorgeous as the last one.  Cape Town is a place I would call breathtaking.  Everything is at easy access- mountains, beach, ocean, wildlife, vineyards, AND the city. 
I stayed with a couple, who have three grown children, and they spoiled me to no end!  It still amazes me how easily my host families have accepted me into their family like one of their own.  I have been shown so much love and care.  I felt at home and a part of a family.  Not only did they show love for me, they showed me what it is like to love strangers- even the homeless who come begging at their door steps and the window of their car.  It was such a blessing to live with and get to know this family.

While in Cape Town, I explored many places and did a variety of activities.  With my EMU group, we attended lectures on various topics and had class discussions.  We also visited Kirstenbosch, a botanical garden, and the District 6 Museum.  My host family took us to see the penguins, Cape Point/ Point of Good Hope, and Chapmond's Peak and other scenic overlooks.  We also took a cable car up to Table Mountain, went on a wine tour, and visited an aquarium and other museums.  In addition, I enjoyed numerous "tea time" occasions, a Braii, which is similar to a BBQ, and an annual party with the Cape Town Caledonian Society.  I also visited Robben Island, which is known for the prison that Nelson Mandela was held.  Another exciting part of my stay in Cape Town is getting to meet Desmund Tutu!  I enjoyed bargaining and shopping for my souvenirs in the city of abundant markets, as well.  Sarah and I had the opportunity to share some of our Thanksgiving traditions with our family while we were there.  It was a delicious meal, despite my failed attempt to make candied sweet potatoes!

Waiting...

Hello again!  Thanks for your patience waiting for each of my blog updates.  I'm still working on my Cape Town blog, while also trying to settle back into the U.S.  If you're dying to know more while I'm working on my next blog, you can check out two things.  After the chapel presentation on our cross-cultural, we played a video of our trip made by Joaquin (one of the students in the group).  http://vimeo.com/33643830.  You can also check out the EMU blog that all the students contributed to if you haven't already seen it. 

http://emu.edu/blog/crosscultural/.

Enjoy!

Making Our Way with Random Excursions

After we left Bathulie, we made our way to Addo Elephant Park where we stayed one night.  We took an evening safari ride where we saw kudu, ostrich, cranes, elephants, zebras, warthogs, red harte-beasts, and a leopart turtoise.  That evening I tried kudu for dinner and it tastes slightly like beef.  Then we headed towards Plettenburg Bay the next morning- but not before stopping by the world's largest bungee jump!  Of course I jumped off the bridge...and might I say with quite the excitement!  Once those who wanted to jump had done so, we ended at Albergo Backpackers.  This was the beginning of our "free travel" (fall break).  Our group broke up into smaller groups for free travel for easier traveling and planning.  My group stayed in Plettenberg Bay the latest, the scenery absolutely stunning.  We enjoyed exploring the area and laying out on the beach.  It is such a beautiful area.  My favorite part was going through the brush that I call the "fairy forest" to get to the beach.  Next, my group moved along the coast to Hermanus for the remainder of our free travel.  Here we were blessed to see many Southern Right Whales!  The whales came so close to the rock bay- I could get a clear perspective of their size and color.  I saw whales breaching, playing around, splashing their tales, guiding their calves, and swimming along the shore.  I also got to go sea kayaking with the whales (we stayed a good distance away, though).  Some girls and I were going to go Great White Shark Cage Diving, too, but it sadly got canceled due to weather.  I enjoyed my free travel time even though weather interrupted.  I was able to relax, take a break from learning, and meet and build more relationships.  I met people from all over the world and locals.  I also grew closer to those in my group as I got to know them better.  Although I enjoyed free travel and having a break, I was very excited to return to homestays in Cape Town.  I had also heard many good things about the city and so I was looking forward to seeing it for myself!

A Breeze Through Bethulie

Our group left Lesotho and spent a week in Bathulie, SA. Bathulie is a small town in the middle of nowhere. I hiked up a hill and I could see the whole town from where I was standing. Surrounding the town are plateaus, rivers, and large stretches of land as far as I could see. It was a fun and busy week full of history, art, and other activities. Bathulie has a lot of history, such as the concentration camps and the apartheid. "The Covenant" talks about Bathulie, so it was cool to see the history and stories come alive a little. Tony, the owner of the hotel we stayed at, led us on many tours around Bathulie and has an attention-grabbing way of telling history and e nets like a story. Since I'm not a history buff, that was much appreciated on my part. We visited several memorials and the place the concentration had been during the Boer War. Tony also took us ro a clinic, school, jail, court house, an artist's house, a pianist's house, and a few other places. We listened to many people share about their experiences and the current issues and situations in Bathulie. I really enjoyed the jail experience. I've always been interested in seeing the reality of jail. The jail we walked through was an all male jail. We were able to walk through the process of being put in jail and then we got to talkto some inmates. Some of the EMU crowd was a bit hesitant walking into the community cell room where all the inmates were standing by their bed. Me being me, I walked straight inane even talked some of the inmates one-on-one. I actually felt more respected there than I do on the streets sometimes. We ended our time with some songs, which was a really neat experience. We also stayed in the homes of Afrikaaners for three days. Laci, Rebekah, Kiera, and I stayed together with a single middle-aged man, Hennings.He had five dogs, two cats, and dice fluffy furball of kittens. The house was kind of run-down, but homey. We all felt right at home and I enjoyed my stay very much. I wish we could've stayed longer. Henning and his lady friend, Maria, were kind, caring, and so open to us. They shares their lives with us and helped us to see new perspectives. The four of us also enjoyed having running water and electricity again after a month without it. We were able to rest during the day while our hosts were working. During our stay, we got to see the sunset from a gorgeous location, watch Maria groom a dog and sing in a choir, and we tried out a local pub with Henning. The dogs were quite entertaining, too! One dog- clearly too big to be a lap dog, tries to get up on me and snuggle. This same dog also gets really excited and "smiles"...with teeth.
I had such a wonderful time in the home getting to relax, spend time with the girls, getting to know Henning and Maria, and learning about culture from an Afrikaans perspective.
After the homestays, we returned to the amazing "Royal Hotel." when I walked in, all I could see was shelves and shelves of books covering the wall from ceiling to floor. This proceeded throughout the place. One room was covered completely with records. The hotel is an old building that Tony had renovated. The place has a unique history of it's own that ties into the history of Bathulie. We spent Halloween here, too, Whig we celebrated by playing a murder mystery dinner.
This short time was delightful. I was sad to leave the small, friendly town, but I was excited for the next part!

Exploring the Mountains and People of Lesotho

My experience in Lesotho was both challenging and rewarding.  It has touched my heart.  The mountains, farms, and landscape are absolutely stunning.  Every day, I was in a new sense of awe.  The landscape had the perfect combination of warm and cool colors.  No matter the weather, there was always something breathtaking about this place.  As the sun rose, the air warmed and the mountains lit up.  People began their daily chores and morning routines.  As the day went on, the sun got higher and warmer.  The land glowed with vibrant colors.  The men were with their herds or working in the fields; the women were cleaning and cooking.  The sky was bright blue with white puffy clouds in the horizon.  The mountains and plateaus in the distance gave colors of blue and purple.  Shades of green, red, and brown scattered the ground.  As the sun set, the mountains glowed of warm colors and the people of Lesotho returned home after hours of hard work.  Fires, ovens, and candles were lit.  At night, the moon was gleaming bright lighting the ground.  When the moon was not out at night, the stars scattered the sky with vibrant and twinkling light.  The mountains cast dark shadows in the horizon.  The earth became still as the animals and people settled down and slept through the night.
Lesotho is a country located in the mountains within South Africa that is mostly composed of farmland and countryside.  There are no fences bordering property lines.  The animals roam around with the herdsmen leading the way.  The earth is dray and rocky.  It is such a wonderful place for hikes and outdoor activities, which we did quite often.  Most people in Lesotho do not have electricity, running water, and do not venture out to new places.  Traditional roles still exist there.  People also like to greet one another as passing.  I had to plan to stop quite a number of times to talk to others before making my way to my destination.
My family didn't fall into the typical role of Lesotho traditions and norms for the most part.  Both parents worked at the lodge in town.  My father was also an associate pastor.  We had a host brother who taught Thia, Hannah, and I to cook, clean, and other chores in teh house.  I lived on a farm during my stay.  On the farm, they had a ram, sheep, cows, a pig, cats, a dog, and horses.  One cat had kittens and a cow had a calf while we were there.  My morning routine included collecting eggs, feeding the chicken & giving water, bathing (which I managed to avoid sometimes :]), and cooking breakfast- all before 7am!  I enjoyed being on the farm and I learned quite a bit about animals.  My family was pretty well off, too, so we ate pretty well and Thia, Hannah, and I had a room to ourselves and our own beds.  Our house had the only hallway in all of Malealea village.
Although we had a challenging beginning with our first host brother, once he was replaced, things went much smoother.  We were able to overcome the challenges together and it helped me to gain new perspectives.  I also found it challenging to see the way people treated animals in Lesotho.  I could see many bones and often beatings on the animals.  They are not loved like other places, but rather used for specific purposes.
Staying in Malealea was a refreshing change, too.  I was able to get away from the distractions of technology and spend more quality time with others and God.  During our stay, we visited several schools, helped with Malealea Development making key-hole gardens, and taking hikes and exploring the place.  Our group also spent a week at a farm in Mohaleo Hoek helping MCC Mission.  We also attended different churches, took part in organized activities, and took a 3 hour horseback trek (boney horses are not comfortable!).  Being in high elevations in warm and dry weather tired me out very quickly!  I enjoyed being active, and I enjoyed my time to rest just as much!

I built relationships, soaked in the beauty, learned about myself and others, and experienced things of excitement, frustrations, peace, and pure happiness.  I fell in love with Lesotho and the people.

Soweto as a Home

I continue to enjoy every minute of every day because there are still things that I am learning and experiencing.  I am familiar with the neighborhood now, but I am still not allowed to go anywhere alone.  The families are very protective of us- they’ll either walk with us somewhere or make sure that we have proper escorts (such as the secret police they arranged for our group).  It doesn’t feel very dangerous to me, but I trust my family and listen to their guidance.

Some of you asked about where I’m living.  The neighborhood is slightly excluded from the other neighborhoods, but there is easy access to many places- like a number of schools and shopping centers.  Each house is small with thick cement walls with some kind of barred gate.  My house has a living room, two bedrooms, and a kitchen.  Out back are three more rooms (separate from the house) that are being rented.  There is also a flushing toilet in an enclosed area within the walls of our place.  The outside looks much different than the cozy indoors.  My room is quite comfortable.  Heidi and I share a queen bed, while the other family members live in the other room (at least 5 of them). They give us plenty of privacy- more than I would have expected.

Now that I have been here a while, I feel comfortable and content.  I feel closer to my host family and I am more open to being myself.  We’ve had numerous times of dancing, cooking, playing games, and talking.  The only thing I still can’t get over is the amount of food my mme keeps trying to feed me!

Speaking of food, I am proud to say that I have tried cow liver, cow stomach/intestines, sheep feet, and chicken feet.  My favorite thing thus far is the fat cakes, which is basically a really dense donut in a ball without any toppings.  I could go on and on about the food because I’ve tried so many unique things, but that’s not the most important part.

Let me also tell you about the dancing…I haven’t met a South African who cannot dance!  Even the 2 year old and the old ladies can dance.  It’s so much fun!  They also have really good music here; they call it “house music.”  Usually it doesn’t have lyrics, but is just really good upbeat music that many people like to blare.

Our group has been doing one or two activities a day.  We have visited several elementary and high schools.  We took a Soweto tour and visited a few museums/ memorials.  As a treat, we got to see a play in Johannesburg called “Death of a Colonist.”   We also went to another soccer game with some family members.

In the elementary schools, I was able to observe different aspects of the schools, such as teaching, facilitating, and disciplining.  I also got to help the students with their work.  It’s quite fascinating comparing and contrasting the differences between American and African schools.  In some aspects, I like these schools better and in other aspects, I appreciate having an American education.  At each of the high schools, we addressed different topics: domestic violence, racism, and teen pregnancy.  We’ve been presenting and watching skits and having discussions to learn about the other’s culture.

Emotionally, I have been doing very well.  I have wonderful support here and I haven’t felt too overwhelmed.  I haven’t been challenged as much as I was expecting, but I am still learning and growing.  I am also challenging myself to find ways that I can apply what I’ve gained here to my life when I return.

Health-wise, I got pretty sick the other day.  One day I woke up feeling weak.  It turned into a high fever and many hours in bed.  The following days continued with weakness and a sore throat.  Then I got a awful cough on top of that.  Everyone has been looking out for me, though- like my host family, the EMU group, and even the neighborhood community.  It was quite the experience seeing how different people react to me.  My mme wanted to help, but didn’t know what to do.  She would wake me up every so often (which felt like every ½ hour) to see if I was better yet.  She cried too because she was worried about me.  Neighbors and others gave me encouraging words and tell me I would be alright.  The EMU group came and sang “Lean on Me” and visited occasionally.  Being sick really showed me how much love and care there is all around me.  Even neighbors and people I didn’t know would wish me well and ask about me.

As usual, I would love to go on and on about my experience, the rich culture, the unique food, the relationships I’m building, and all that I have been learning, but I’ve got to stop somewhere.  Just a heads up, I will not be in contact (and updating the blog) for a month.  My next destination is Lesotho where there is no electricity or any form of contacting tools.  Although I will be sad to depart my wonderful host family and the area I’ve grown familiar with, I’m excited to see the mountains and rivers of Lesotho.  I’m also looking forward to the more simplistic lifestyle.

Sala hantle! (Stay well)